7/24/2016 Ask, Search, Knock

Ordinary Time (Proper 12)
Hosea 1:2–10, Psalm 85, Colossians 2:6–19, Luke 11:1–13

This week in the Gospel lection we encounter one of the simplest, yet most dangerously loaded, questions–as voiced by an unnamed disciple of Jesus:

Praying-Hands-Image[Jesus] was praying in a certain place, and after he had finished, one of his disciples said to him, “Lord, teach us to pray, as John taught his disciples.” He said to them, “When you pray, say: Father, hallowed be your name. Your kingdom come. Give us each day our daily bread. And forgive us our sins, for we ourselves forgive everyone indebted to us. And do not bring us to the time of trial.” And he said to them, “Suppose one of you has a friend, and you go to him at midnight and say to him, “Friend, lend me three loaves of bread; for a friend of mine has arrived, and I have nothing to set before him.’ And he answers from within, “Do not bother me; the door has already been locked, and my children are with me in bed; I cannot get up and give you anything.’ I tell you, even though he will not get up and give him anything because he is his friend, at least because of his persistence he will get up and give him whatever he needs. “So I say to you, Ask, and it will be given you; search, and you will find; knock, and the door will be opened for you. For everyone who asks receives, and everyone who searches finds, and for everyone who knocks, the door will be opened. Is there anyone among you who, if your child asks for a fish, will give a snake instead of a fish? Or if the child asks for an egg, will give a scorpion? If you then, who are evil, know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more will the heavenly Father give the Holy Spirit to those who ask him!” –Luke 11:1-13 NRSV

There’s certainly a lot in this passage, and multiple parts can easily generate a whole raft of potential sermons and Bible-study discussions. Buried between the lines throughout, however, is this uncomfortable question: “How come God didn’t answer my prayer?”

Yeah, that question.

Who hasn’t asked (or mumbled or silently expressed) it at some point? The deafening silence we’ve all encountered finds the words of Jesus echoing in our mind: Ask, and it will be given you; search, and you will find; knock, and the door will be opened for you. That sounds suspiciously like a guarantee, but that can be deceiving.

This basic question is akin to another familiar one: Why do bad things happen to good people? The best answer I can come up with for that one is, “Why not?” A more extended version includes the idea that neither our moral behavior nor our Christian discipleship innoculate us from awful stuff happening. If we like the part of human agency that offers choices then we’re compelled to accept another side, which includes the possibility of either random or directed “evil” coming our way. I find it only a step or two away to accepting that I cannot control God’s response to my prayerful requests.

This, of course, does not mean I should break off all attempts at communication with Diety, but at least it leads me to twin assumptions: I don’t control God and I don’t automatically attribute whatever happens to God’s direct or indirect intervention. This helps explain why I bristle every time I hear somebody say “It’s all part of God’s plan (and maybe someday we’ll understand even if that day is an eternity away)” or the somewhat more nontheological, “Everything happens for a reason.”

Let me say this as bluntly as possible: No, I don’t think everything happens for a reason.

Having said that (which probably annoys, upsets, or disgusts a good many folks), I also believe that something good can arise out of even the most evil (as well as random) act, all because of the power of the Holy Spirit. My first responsibility is to act faithfully, in large part because I believe that is God’s first responsibility, as well: To be faithful to the promises God has made to humankind, beginning with the biblical narrative involving Abraham and Sarah.

As a Christian I believe those ancient promises to eventually bring abundant blessing to all of creation will be brought to fruition through Jesus Christ. Of course, when other people who also look to “father Abraham” (namely, Jews and Muslims) read those scriptures, they’re going to understand the fulfillment of ancient promised blessings in different ways. That shouldn’t negate anybody’s perspective.

This is starting to lead further away from the original topic of how to pray, although I think we’re still in the general vicinity if not the specific neighborhood. Notice Luke’s version of the Lord’s Prayer, somewhat shorter than the more familiar one in Matthew 6, where it appears as part of the Sermon on the Mount. Here, too, it begins with acknowledging the blessedness and hallowedness of God and our openness to the coming of God’s kingdom here and now. There’s recognition that our daily needs ultimately come from God and that we need divine forgiveness as well as the necessity of forgiving others. Finally there’s the hope expressed that we will not be brought to a “time of trial or testing.” Then Luke launches into an extended narrative about hospitable relationships between friends and the responsibilities parents have for their children. “Ask, search, knock” means basically to be persistent, which is a very close cousin to being faithful.

If there is one common thread throughout all this it is how relationships work: whether we’re talking about parents and children, friends and neighbors, or human beings and God. None of these examples are one-way relationships–there’s actions and responsibilities for all parties. Occasionally there may be silence (or even deafness) on one end, but that doesn’t mean the relationship is ended.

What is needed at those times most of all is a recognition and acceptance of the eternal aspects, in length and breadth and depth. It was for this very reason that the apostle Paul affirmed, “in all things God works for good for those who love God, who are called according to his purpose” (Romans 8:28).

I will keep praying. Sometimes I’ll undoubtedly feel empty and alone. But I know there will be other times when I feel deeply imbedded in a relationship. That’s what keep me going.

*Reprinted from 2013 ForeWords archive

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About Rich Brown

Rich Brown is a writer, blogger, editor, and publisher. His most recent book is "Speak to the Bones: How to Be a Prophetic People in a Time of Exile" (Isaac's Press).
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